Vastra: See, the thing for me was that I never should have never studied abroad. I was young, I didn't know who I was, and to be completely honest, I was just afraid of being alone.
Ben: Wow. Can I share something with you?
Vastra: Uh, yes, please, this is… uh, communicating. This is how we connect.
Ben: You shouldn't tell people that stuff. It makes you sound like a loser.
Vastra: No, it makes me sound like a real human being, a person with feelings and flaws.
Ben: *makes the 'loser' hand gesture*